To cut a very, very, very long story short, I have been friends with this girl since year 7. She has done many horrible things to me, but we made up and were (well, what I thought) friends. Until recently (around novemeber) we had an argument but we made up just in time for xmas. I got her a really nice present and it seemed like we were good friends again. But the minute we got back to school she and my other friend have been leaving me out (big time) and not waiting for me, not sitting with me at lunch, ect, so basically I was by myself. I decieded that I was going to pluck up the courage to make new friends. I have made 2 new lovely friends who are willing to involve me and sit with me and I have felt so much happier!!
But that didn’t last long because today (at lunch) one of my new friends (my other friend was ill) said ‘are you and (lets call her ann - she’s my so called best friend from before) ann still friends?’ I said ‘yeah, yeah, I am just making more friends.’ And my new friend said ‘because ann said that you called her a sh** friend.’ and I am really upset because my lovely new friends aren’t going to like me because they’ll think I call people and I bet they think I’m horrible. All I want to do is be friends with people who want to be my friend and include me, and Ann has gone and ruined it for me. If Ann is jealous that I have made new friends then why did she treat me like rubbish in the first place? What can I do because she’s trying to steal my friends?
thanks for your help x
If it were me I wud report her as she is going to far.
If those new people are real friends then they will accept u 4 who ur and if they think tht about u then who cares? just know who u r for real and never forget tht. But never feel like you have no friends because Jesus is ur bff and will always be yours.
You need to make sure your new friends know that you didn’t call her a shit friend and that you aren’t like that. And if she is trying to steal away your new friends, tell Ann to grow up and stop being a fucking jealous little girl, and that if she isn’t going to treat you like a friend then leave you alone and stop interffering with your life.
Seriously Ann sounds like a friggen 4 year old.
The main thing is maybe to expain to your new friends whats happened. it’s alright, i’ve been through it too…people mature in the end though
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Move to another school its the only way you can start a fresh start.
Tell your new friends that you didn’t say that and that your old friend made that up. If you think you won’t be friends with her again and you are going to be friends with the new people then tell them what your old friend did and how it upset you and then they’ll probably understand and will still want to be your friend
Good luck xx
The second you realize you dont need them. theyll need you. and if they don’t let them figure it out. its there decision. one cannot control anothers thoughts or actions. just dont waste your thoughts on that when you can focus on other things that matter.
I don’t think she is trying to steal your friends. Would you purposely go out and make it a devotion to try and steal someone elses friends for the fun of it? probably not.
However, I do think that she is making a mistake. You may be too, whatever you do, do not talk about people behind their backs. IT WILL GET YOU INTO TROUBLE! This is what you do. Just mind your own business and explain that you meant no harm to anyone and you just wanna move on to newer things. Girls are nasty, trust me, I’ve been through it.
And as hard as it is not to speak up for yourself and punch her in the face, you gotta back down, because these girls are expecting you to freak out. Don’t give them what they want!
Good luck and best of wishes
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Ann doesn’t know how to be a real friend to anyone. You need to speak to her and go on with your life. Make new friends and don’t answer her calls or texts. Live and forgive and go on. Don’t tell her anything you don’t want spread around. She is not your friend. Don’t ever show fear to anyone because bullies love it. Pray and ask the Lord for your answers. If you listen he will speak to you!
well..i just recently left school and started college this year anyway :P..out of all the’best friends’ i had in school only one stayed!!..the one i least expected because my other ones were so stuck to my side, the new friends you have made is more than likely to stay..you dont need people who do that to you..shes probally gonna go down one hell of a different track to you (ann) witch leaves you on the kind hearted track
just tell them the truth about your ex friends and if they understand then there friends for life!!
Even though you would love to be friends with “Ann”, she is not treating you like a TRUE friend. Real friends wouldn’t do such disgraceful things to each other as “Ann” is doing to you. Within the past week I had to sever ties with my so-called friend Anthony (and that’s his real name), we had been friends for 18 years, but at times he would be rotten to me. He would call, text, and/or leave many many voicemails on my cell phone over and over and over again. I told him to stop, but he continued. So I called the police, I had the officer call Anthony to order him to stop, and he stopped. But now Anthony has told many of our OTHER friends that I said bad things about them, when I never did. (We are not friends any more.) Many people are cruel. If I were you, I’d tell “Ann” face-to-face that I end our friendship right now because of her actions against me. But I wouldn’t tell other people lies about her, as she has done to you. You have more CLASS than that. Some day, “Ann” will have the same thing done to HER, BAD KARMA/GOOD KARMA, what goes around comes around. What’s good for the goose, is good for the gander. “Ann” is only showing how immature and insecure of a person she really is by doing all these horrible things. You don’t deserve a horrible person like that to be your friend. Just tell your new friends the truth, that you never said what “Ann” has said. If they are your true new friends, they will believe you. God above knows, sees, and hears all. Some day, “Ann” will have to answer to HIM about what she has done to you. You can’t force “Ann” to act nice to you. Only “Ann” can change “Ann”.